Surely at t my age and anyone above 40+1 etc., should not be proud to really be seeing everything from the niece’s best friend’s boyfriend’s mother’s Ben 10 (younger boyfriend) or bally (Sugar Daddy).
When a Couple in their 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s or 60s decide to build a dream house and or retirement home, my advise would be just go ahead and build for yourselves what you two (2) desire. Do not overcomplicate matters by thinking of or accommodating your children and grandchildren in your plans allocating oneContinue reading “Dream Houses and Retirement Homes”
On 02/02/2021 I will fortunately be purging some of my social media friends. I wish to cut out some contagious negativity, unnecessary arguments, oversharing, and the “empty” noise generated by and from random stuff “friends” masquerading as experts in all areas of human endeavors. Social media platforms like Facebook, YouTube, Instagram, WhatsApp, Telegram, LinkedIn andContinue reading “Purging Contagious & Negative Media Friends”
“The oldest and strongest emotion of mankind is fear, and the oldest and strongest kind of fear is fear of the unknown.” H.P. Lovecraft wrote those words in the 1920s and they are still relevant today and will be more relevant in 2021 and beyond. These days of the “New Normal”, inevitably means Online BankingContinue reading “Mr. Doubting Thomas & Mrs. Doubt-Fire – 2021”
Instead, initiate a practice of filling your creative thoughts to overflow with ideas and wishes that you fully intend to manifest. Honor your imaginings regardless of others seeing them as crazy or impossible. – Wayne Dyer said.
We have heard of Road Rages. What with morning rush hour traffic Jams, Domestic Violence, Spouse Battery or Streets fights by Political Cadres all point to someone being very angry. Question is when you personally get angry do you simmer slowly or do you jump right to the point of boiling over, pull out theContinue reading “Simmering with Rage has a financial cost”
The Generational Gap of value systems between Parents and Children is not not only widening but worrying. The African Concept and methodology of correcting and control (ukukontolola), “teaching lessons” (ukufunda) and raising “disciplined and obedient Children” has a slightly different connotation from other Western Cultures. The African version is slowly waning away. African Children areContinue reading “The Generational Gap is widening”
22 June 2020: 06/21/2020 – Deep reflections on the FATHER’s “SUN”Day. Morning “Online” Prayers and I go out jogging. Hot and Humid in the Sunshine State of Florida, but a man has to do what a man has to do. I come back home and take a cold shower. After breakfast; and upon checking myContinue reading “The Happy FATHERs “SUN-Day””